bismillah ar rahman ar raheem.
when you help Allah’s deen,He will help you.
make du’a for my exam.
Dear readers,
I’m fulfilling a person right who’d prefer call itself as ukhti.which when she said about a week ago,she needs an entry about friendship.I assume,she’s asking me to fill up her empty cup about friendship which was spilt somewhere, Allahua’lam. May Allah bless you ukhti and gives your soul ease.
ukhti,
as the basic in any relationship,there would be time of ups and downs in friendship.
when we said “ukhwah fillah abadan abada”, we have made an agreement to bear with each other.it brings a meaning of we are ready to be tested by The Almighty up there upon our sincerity and respect.
in addition ukhti,
as Allah has created us as a human not an angel,we do make mistakes.and every each of us has our own weaknesses.yes,sometimes,our weaknesses cannot be accepted by our friend.this is why Allah has created us different from others,so that we can complete each other!
plus ukhti,
you know what our prophet p.b.u.h said,the lowest level of friendship is good thoughts while the highest is ithar.how do you think we would go to Janna with her when we can only think of bad thoughts of our friend?
my dear ukhti,
in whatever condition you’re having,which I’m not clear of it,try to understand her,so you will be understood as well.you know,syaitan would always take advantages in your friendship.because we as a muslim,our base of friendship is Iman.when we aren’t comfortable with them, being ‘honest in a good way’ is the best step to keep an everlasting bond 
Insyallah..
ukhti,
this time,I would like to share with you my experience with my very best friend.She is 2 years older than me.She was the one who have tried so hard trying to change me from a jaheel person to a person with basic understanding of islam one time ago ‘we love each other because of Allah’,that what we would always said every year and every time we change letters.
then,all of sudden.
I doubt her.
no.no.no.correction,I simply had a bad thought of her.I was trapped by the great devil of all,syaitan.I start avoiding her.I don’t want to even look at her.Every time her name mentioned,I would feel sick and annoyed.It was the craziest feeling at that time.Hatred.I was confused with myself.
until one day,I try to normalize my mind from all negative impression towards her.It was nothing.She’d done nothing actually.The problem is me.Who failed at the first level, good thoughts 
It’s actually Allah’s doing. He’s trying to test us from our words,
“uhibbuki fillah jiddan”
I failed at first,but Alhamdulillah,I know what is the main value Allah has shown me.;)
so ukhti,
may Allah’s words transferred from me to you would bring ease and satisfaction.because every hardship comes ease.If you are still unsatisfied, I’m terribly sorry.I will pray for you and your friends,Insyallah…
and of course, Love of Allah is all we need 
.docorrectMeplease.
